by As the air turns crisp and the world glows gold, November — and the Thanksgiving Holiday — invites us to pause. Between the rush of deadlines and the swirl of holiday prep, the concept of gratitude can get lost in the shuffle. Let’s make saying “thank you” less about the calendar, and more about connection — to yourself and to the community around you. Let’s create a gratitude ritual.
Taking time to write a handwritten note is one of the simplest ways to slow down. It’s tactile and intentional. Unlike a quick text or emoji, a letter lingers — the weight of the paper, the flow of the ink, your handwriting. It reminds both you and your correspondent that gratitude is an act of care. Here are some ways to make writing letters of gratitude a ritual.
Get Cozy
Think of your comfort first. You won’t return to this gratitude ritual month after month if it isn’t enjoyable and satisfying…even nourishing. Find a comfortable seat — your desk, kitchen counter, or favorite chair near the window. Play your fave music, light a candle, brew a cup of tea. And if you happen to send that gratitude on embossed stationery, sealed in an envelope that feels like a tiny gift? Even better.
Create A List
This past summer, I began sending people in my life handwritten birthday notes once a month. What’s your why? Maybe you want to thank your work colleagues? Or forge a connection with your nieces and nephews? Maybe you want to strengthen family ties….or comfort the elders in your life? Perhaps you want to keep a gratitude list for those who do something kind (big or small): a friend who checked in during a hard week, a coworker who made you laugh, that kind of thing.
Write
Now it’s time to sit and execute your plan. Not perfectly. Just honestly. A sentence or two is enough: “You made my week better.” or “Thinking of you and feeling grateful.” Maybe it’s: “It was so fun dancing with you at the wedding last month. Hope we can see each other soon!” The key here is to be authentic. No big words, no need to impress.
Get Into A Rhythm
Over time, this simple practice shifts something. You’ll start noticing moments worth thanking. The ritual becomes part of your rhythm — not a chore, but a steady reminder that beauty often lives in small gestures. You’re not just writing a note — you’re connecting with another human who is important to you. And that act of connection will carry warmth long after Thanksgiving is over and November fades.
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